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Twilight

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"Twilight" is the name of a movie that's very popular with the younger crowd these days.    All Gothic, vampire stuff.  Not my cup of tea.

The half-light between night and day has always fascinated me.  When my kids are out playing and I see it descending, I go and call them in immediately.  I always feel that things are a little scary in half-light.  You know where you are with night and day.  But half-light is deceiving.  I always like to know where I am with everything.

We don't have much twilight in India.  Things tend to happen very fast here at times.  One minute it's day, the next it's night.  You're out walking in daylight and by the time you reach home, it's night.  Yes, very strange.And not at all what I was accustomed to .  But I've got used to it by now.

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